Module 4 — Check the Story, Build Evidence · Step 1 of 3 · About 20 min

Separate what happened from what it means

Keep what happened separate from what you make it mean.

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Teach

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An event, a story about it, and a verdict about yourself are different things. Separating them can help you describe a situation more accurately without pretending it was positive.

The event is what happened and can be observed or checked. The story is your explanation of it; it may be accurate, partly accurate, or mistaken. A verdict turns the event into a broad judgment about who you are. Uncertainty is what you do not know yet.

For example: “I missed the deadline” names an event. “The instructions were unclear” is a possible explanation to check. “I always let people down” is a broad verdict that one deadline does not establish. “I have not checked when the instructions changed” keeps an unknown visible.

Accuracy does not remove responsibility. You can acknowledge a missed commitment, recognise its impact, and examine conditions or missing skills without deciding it defines your identity. You also do not have to replace a harsh verdict with a flattering one.

A useful revision might be: “I missed this deadline. I need to check the instructions and decide what to do differently.” That statement gives you something to investigate or act on. Personal disclosure is optional; a neutral example is enough. This is an educational thinking move, not therapy or an explanation of someone’s history.

Journal minimum: Save at least one short note in a Try or Reflect box for this lesson. You do not have to answer every question. Write what you noticed, a question, or what you still do not know. If you have not tried the activity, say so. You can use the example instead of personal details. This leaves something to return to in later lessons. Saving is not sharing.

Show — a neutral example, never a participant story

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The worked example that goes with this step.

How you'll write

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Choose a route and the writing below takes that shape.

Try

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The doing part. A line is enough.

Reflect

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Looking back at how it went.

Next decision

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What you want to do with this next.

What comes out

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What this step leaves you with.

Source and boundaries

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Where this step comes from and what it will not do.

Approved source: Entrepalooza Pilot 1 — Module Breakdown (Oct 5, 2026) · adopted Pilot 1 scope · Pilot 1 adopted card · lessons database copy Oct 6, 2026

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